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What should you do on a first date?
Typically the suggestions will basically boil down to dinner and a movie or something along those lines.
Other alternatives can come to mind if you’ve met via some activity. So, for example if you’ve come in contact through exercise classes perhaps a short cycling tour around the area might be suggested.
In fact, if the guy likes you a lot and is really clever what he should suggest is something that scares you a little. No so much that you won’t go at all obviously, but rather something that makes you distinctly nervous (about the activity, not about the guy obviously). This is because it will make you feel that he is more attractive. Sounds crazy, I know, but it’s been tested out by psychologists and it does work.
So, if your potential date suggests some activity that frightens you a little, now you know why he’s thought of it.
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Self-maintenance for a date
You’ve thought about your make-up, chosen the underwear, picked out the shoes and have a nice dress lined up so next up is your personal maintenance.
There are a number of aspects to this obviously:
- Guys expect guys to be smooth so that means shaving your legs and arm pits. Waxing is even better and lasts longer.
- Wash your hair for those times when he’s running his hands through it.
- Have a bath or shower so you smell fresh.
- Think about perfume. Light rather than heavy duty is the way to go. Don’t forget that really laying on the perfume can be very off-putting: better to aim for that fresh smelling scent than perfume by the gallon.
- Clean your teeth and think about a mint to freshen up your breath.
And that’s about it. All minor points but neglecting any one of them can be off-putting on a date.
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Underwear for a first date
Unless you’re planning on taking him to bed, you probably figure that the lingerie you wear doesn’t really matter.
Not so. There will be aspects of your underwear that he will notice. If you’re wearing a skirt or dress, he’ll see whether or not you’re wearing stockings or tights/pantyhose. If the skirt is short enough, he’ll know if you’re wearing stockings and if it’s that short, wear stockings rather than tights.
If your skirt, dress, trousers or leggings are tight enough then he’ll probably see an outline of the panties you’re wearing and if that’s the case forget about comfy ones and go for a thong or nothing at all. He definitely won’t want to think of you as a girl who wears granny knickers.
Depending on what you’re wearing on top he might see an outline of your bra so make it an outline that he’ll like. If you don’t have a whole lot up top, consider one of the push up bras, if you’ve heaps up there, go for something that tones it down a bit.
Aside from anything else, if you’re wearing something sexy underneath, it’ll make you feel a little more sexy yourself and that’s always a good thing on a date.
And if you are thinking that he might see it later, ramp up the sexiness of the underwear and don’t forget that it’s sexier to have sex whilst you’re still wearing your lingerie. So, stockings rather than tights and put the panties on last so that you can keep the stockings on (unless you go for an open-crotch style). For a really sexy look, go for suspender belt stockings rather than the hold-up style.
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